“Have you ever had a dream, Neo, that you were so sure was real? What if you were unable to wake from that dream? How would you know the difference between the dream world and the real world?” (The Matrix, 1999)
Life is complex, diverse and endless.
Thus attempting to mold it into a tiny box just doesn’t do it justice. What I can tell you is that danae and I are reality minded. The M/s light switch never goes into the off position. Just because I’m working or involved in a project doesn’t mean our dynamic stops. No, it’s not because danae is bound 23 hours of the day like I’d want her to be… but it means that we’re engaging on a mindset that doesn’t acquiese to the vanilla things that we come across.
Underneath My vanilla layers I’m a fetishist. I’m a sadist. I’m poly. I’m a bondage enthusiast. I’m a bbw lover. I have dark thoughts of sadism and depravity that stirs deep within.
On the surface I’m a political junkie. I’m pretty smart. I’m romantic, a photographer and game nut. I’ve been told that I’m evil with a smirk … I’ll let you decide that one.
All told – I’m as real and as open as I can be. Honesty, integrity and communication are the pillars by which we govern our dynamic and that’s how we lead our lives. No matter how doom, gloom or bad the news might be – always best to get it out in the open so that it can be dealt with.
The motto I’ve learned most on my Journey thus far: be honest and true to yourself – and the rest will fall into place. If we’re not gut wrenching honest with ourselves to begin with, then everything else we have is in peril.