BDSM Info

Thoughts and experiences expressed about a variety of BDSM topics. There is no one way to do BDSM.  Discussing and Reading books, essays, online forums can help you formulate what works best for you.  Take some time to figure out what you want and need from this lifestyle.

Just a few excerpts from some essays with a full list of BDSM essays on the sidebar menu.  This collection of essays range from general BDSM info, sex,  to being a community and SM play.

As this year comes to a close, it is a time for reflection and gratitude. Most of us begin our lifestyle path not knowing exactly where we will end up. There are places within our community that not only help us make sense of our desires but offers the opportunity to socialize with other like minded people. ~ ~ It Takes a Community

 

He told me to turn around. My breasts were hanging out. I was growing very warm. I heard a car approaching as I stood there… shifting from foot to foot. He told me to put my outer top on but leave my tank top as is and to get in the car. I put the shirt on just as a car pulled in the lot. I felt the heat in my face move down my body. I looked down and walked to the other side of the car and got in. I wanted to run, but did not want to draw more attention to myself than I felt there already was. ~ ~ Adventures of a Toy Slut: Role Playing

 

“As we all learn and grow, we find that we change. Most times this growth is for the better. However, sometimes we tend to become narrow minded and start believing our way is the only way. Usually, this change is where problems and arguments arise.”  – Your Kink My Kink

 

I finish my shower as she struggles to rationalize what she’s thinking, how she’s feeling. She looks as though she were thoroughly used, exhausted and spent. As I get out of the shower, she remains sitting on the floor, bobbing her torso ever so slightly as she tries to regain her senses. I carefully ensure that she’s going to be able to stand up and finish her shower – rinsing off smell and the feeling of the urine. Almost liberating her of sorts. ~ ~ He Said, she Said: Golden Showers